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Soonamasi

Soonamasi

Soona Masi Irani

Gulmai's younger sister; manager of the women's ashram; kept watch at the gate

โ€œSneezyโ€

3 April 1884 โ€“ 3 April 1973

Biography

Soona Irani, known to all as Soonamasi, was born on 3 April 1884. Her parents had come from Kerman in Iran; her elder sister was Gulmai Irani and her brother was Dr. Minochershaw. She married Kaikhushru Beheram Irani, a Zoroastrian jeweler of Bombay known as Kaikhushru Masa, and their only daughter Khorshed was born in 1910. Masa was an early visitor to Upasni Maharaj at Sakori, and in August 1919 Soonamasi spent two weeks pleading with Gulmai until her sister agreed to go to Sakori, the step that brought Gulmai's whole family to Meher Baba.

In May 1922 at Sakori, Baba asked Soonamasi whether she would come and stay with him once he had arranged a place, and she gave him her hand in promise. Later that year in Bombay he walked unannounced into the family's kitchen and told her she could come to him at any time of the day. In 1923, ordered to remain in Ahmednagar, she refused to leave even after three telegrams said that Masa was gravely ill in Bombay. Baba told her that had she broken his order Masa would have died, and that by obeying she had saved him.

From 1924 Baba housed Mehera with Soonamasi's family in Bombay, and from 1925 Soonamasi lived with the women mandali in their secluded quarters at Meherabad and later at Toka and Nasik. When Baba asked whether she would always stay near Mehera, she assented at once. Masa, whose relatives had seized him in 1929 and forced him to sign his property over to them, came back to Nasik broken in health and died there on 18 January 1931 with Baba keeping watch beside him.

In the 1930s Soonamasi managed the women's ashram, though her muddled bazaar accounts gave the other women much to laugh about, and for years she kept watch at the gate of the women's compound. She travelled with Baba to Cannes in 1937 and with the women on the Blue Bus tours. Baba teased her by calling her a "barber" (an Indian insult meaning someone barbaric), nicknamed her "Sneezy" after the dwarf in the Snow White film, and called her the "Gatekeeper to Heaven."

When the New Life began in 1949, Baba sent Soonamasi and Khorshed to live in Bombay, where they remained for the rest of her life, visiting him whenever he allowed. Miserable at the separation, she was told by Baba in 1957 that by keeping her far away he kept her close. Baba had told her to take his name always so that she would remember him at her dying hour, and in her final years her lips moved with it continually. She died in her flat in Bombay on her birthday, 3 April 1973, calling out "Meher Baba!" at midnight.

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Life Timeline

1919

Persuaded her sister Gulmai to visit Upasni Maharaj at Sakori in August

1922

Promised Baba at Sakori in May that she would come and stay with him

1922

In Bombay Baba walked unannounced into her kitchen in Parel and told her she could come to him at any time of the day

1923

Obeyed Baba's order to stay in Ahmednagar despite her husband's grave illness

1924

Baba housed Mehera with Soonamasi's family at Irani Mansion in Bombay

1925

Living with the women mandali in their quarters at Meherabad

1931

Her husband Kaikhushru Masa died in Nasik on 18 January with Baba beside him

1932

Serving as manager of the women's ashram

1937

Travelled with Baba and the women to Cannes, France

1938

On 29 August Baba appointed her to keep watch at the main gate on Meherabad Hill, calling her "the Gatekeeper to Heaven"

1949

Sent with Khorshed to live in Bombay at the start of the New Life

1951

Met Baba in Bombay for the first time since the New Life began; with his consent she and Khorshed moved to their own apartment

1957

At a darshan Baba assured her, "By being far, I keep you close to me"

1973

Died in Bombay on her birthday, 3 April, calling out Baba's name

Quotes

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Will you come and stay with me? ... Not now, but later after I have arranged a place. I only wanted to know if you would.

โ€” Sakori, May 1922: asked in private before Soonamasi and Khorshed left for Bombay. She answered "Surely!" and gave him her hand in promise.

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Soonamasi, you may come at any time during the day.

โ€” Bombay, 1922: Baba walked unannounced into the kitchen of Kaikhushru Masa's house in Parel and told the family when each of them should visit him at Manzil-e-Meem.

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Had you broken my order, Masa would have died; but now he won't. You have saved him by obeying my instructions.

โ€” 1923: ordered to stay in Ahmednagar, Soonamasi ignored three telegrams saying that her husband was gravely ill in Bombay.

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I will not be back for twelve years. You should stay here and remember me. This time I won't be taking you with me to Quetta.

โ€” Bombay, June 1924, to Soonamasi and Khorshed before leaving for Quetta. He was back at their apartment in Irani Mansion a month and a half later.

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Will you always stay near Mehera, as she is my Radha?

โ€” Nasik, shortly before January 1931: Gulmai said it would not be possible for her; when Baba asked Soonamasi the same question, she at once assented.

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Don't think I am keeping you away. By being far, I keep you close to me.

โ€” 1957: at a darshan, when Soonamasi, living in Bombay since the New Life began, was miserable at being away from him.

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Remember, when your dying hour comes, you should take My name, and then you will come to Me. ... So try from now on to take My name always, so that at the time you breathe your last, you won't forget Me.

โ€” Told to Soonamasi in her later years, as recalled by her daughter in Khorshed K. Irani, Fortunate to Love Him. In her last years her lips moved with Baba's name continually.

Notable Stories

Obedience that saved her husband

In 1923 Baba sent Soonamasi and Khorshed to Ahmednagar with orders to stay there. Three telegrams arrived saying that Masa was seriously ill in Bombay, but she did not go. When Baba asked what would have happened had Masa died, she answered that everyone has to die sometime, and that she did not care what anyone thought while she was at his feet. Baba smiled and told her, "Had you broken my order, Masa would have died; but now he won't. You have saved him by obeying my instructions." He sent her to Bombay at once, and Masa improved as soon as she arrived.

The trunk of embroidered saris

In Nasik in the early 1930s the women mandali dressed in plain cotton saris. One day Baba went through their trunks and found that Soonamasi's was full of beautiful embroidered saris she had brought from Bombay. She loved dressing well, but Baba took them all and gave them to her daughter Khorshed, and a few days later took them from Khorshed too.

By being far, I keep you close

After the New Life began, Soonamasi and Khorshed lived in Bombay and could visit Baba only occasionally. At a darshan in 1957 Soonamasi told him how miserable she was living away from him, and Baba assured her, "Don't think I am keeping you away. By being far, I keep you close to me."

The Gatekeeper to Heaven

For years Soonamasi kept watch at the gate of the secluded women's quarters: by the gate at Meherabad with Kakubai in 1933, and outside the bungalow in Mysore in 1936, where Baba himself took over the watch while she cooked for the ailing Mani. On 29 August 1938, assigning the women their duties on Meherabad Hill, Baba declared that Masi was to keep watch at the main gate: "She is the Gatekeeper to Heaven!" From a small room under the water tank she watched for Baba to cross the railway line and walked him up the hill for his meals. Her daughter Khorshed recalled that one day the glare blinded her and she missed him; Baba put his hand over her eyes, told her to sleep without opening them, and assured her that she would not go blind. The next morning she could see clearly.

If only I were a barber

In 1938 at Meherabad Baba liked to tease his close ones, and he would call Soonamasi a "barber!", an insult in India meaning someone barbaric. One day she retorted, "It would have been nice had I really been a barber! Then at least I would have been able to hold your face in my hands once in a while!" Khorshed also recalled that Baba teased her mother for being so short that she reached only his shoulder, promising, "Next time, I'll make you taller," and that his sign for her was a kangaroo, because her walk reminded him of one.

Kitchiri to break the fast

While Baba was living at Manzil-e-Meem in Bombay in 1922, he often fasted for days at a time. He asked "Soona Masiji" to bathe and cook kitchiri for him in an especially clean manner to break one of his fasts. She brought the pot to the Manzil at eleven o'clock, still hot, and Baba put his hand into it, ate two or three handfuls and told her to take the rest back home. Her daughter Khorshed, who had always refused kitchiri, ate it as his prasad and liked it from then on, and whenever Baba broke a fast he would ask her mother to make kitchiri for him.

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