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Padri

Faredoon Nawrosjee Driver

Dispensary compounder and manager of Meherabad, founding trustee of the Avatar Meher Baba Trust

29 November 1903 โ€“ 13 March 1982
Poona, India โ†’ Meherabad, India

Biography

Faredoon Nawrosjee Driver, known universally as "Padri," was one of Meher Baba's earliest and most steadfast disciples, serving the Master from 1922 until Baba's passing in 1969โ€”a continuous relationship spanning nearly half a century. Born on November 29, 1903, in Poona, India, Padri came from a Zoroastrian Irani family with significant connections to Meher Baba's own circle.

Padri's family tree intertwined remarkably with Meher Baba's mandali. His mother, Freiny Sohrab Irani (also known as Freiny Masi, born 1874), was the elder sister of Daulat, who was Mehera's motherโ€”making Padri and Mehera, Meher Baba's foremost woman disciple, cousins. Freiny's younger brother was Colonel Merwan Sohrab Irani, who for almost 35 years spread hostile propaganda against Baba. These family connections meant that Padri's destiny was intertwined with Meher Baba's mission from the earliest days.

Padri was one of four children born to Nowroj Driver and Freiny. His siblings included Rusi (the eldest, one of Baba's schoolmates, who studied engineering at the Colorado School of Mines and lived in America for the rest of his life), Keki, and Homi. He received his education at Poona Camp Government English School.

Meher Baba gave Faredoon the nickname "Padri" (which means "priest" or "padre") because of his lanky, priest-like stature. This nickname, like many that Baba bestowed on his disciples, would become the name by which he was known throughout the Baba community worldwide.

In 1922, at the age of eighteen, Padri began living with and serving Meher Baba at Manzil-e-Meem, Baba's first ashram in Bombay. This early commitment placed him among the original group of disciples who witnessed and participated in the formative years of Baba's work. Originally trained as a garage mechanic, Padri brought practical skills that would prove invaluable in the challenging physical conditions of ashram life.

When Meher Baba moved his ashram to Ahmednagar district and established Meherabad, Padri was among those who followed. Baba designated Padri as one of the four "pillars" of Meherabadโ€”a recognition of his fundamental importance to the functioning and maintenance of this sacred place that would become the site of Meher Baba's Samadhi (tomb-shrine).

Over time, Padri developed another crucial role: he studied and became a doctor of homeopathy, treating local villagers in the area surrounding Meherabad. This service to the community reflected Baba's emphasis on selfless service as a path of spiritual development. Padri's homeopathic practice became well-known in the region, and he continued this healing work for decades.

Padri's character was marked by a no-nonsense approach to spirituality. He emphasized obedience to the Master above all else and had little patience for ostentatious sentimentality. His most famous quote captures this practical, grounded approach to the spiritual path: "Love is for the saints and the masts, not for the likes of us!" This statement, rather than denying the importance of love, actually expressed deep humilityโ€”Padri saw his role as simply following his Master's orders faithfully, leaving the heights of divine love to those more spiritually advanced.

One story illustrates both Padri's close relationship with fellow mandali member Pendu and his commitment to obedience. When Baba discovered that Padri had allowed relatives of his servants Nana and Tani to visit Meherabad despite a ban on outsiders, Baba had Pendu confront Padri about this violation. Although Pendu and Padri were close friends, Pendu put all his heart into scolding Padri as Baba wished, demonstrating that even personal friendships must be subordinate to the Master's instructions. The incident also showed that Baba's discipline extended to every detail of ashram lifeโ€”Tani's bathing in the mandali bathroom and Nana's thrashing yard in Meherabad were both issues addressed. Baba instructed Padri to stop these privileges but not dismiss the servants.

After Meher Baba's passing in January 1969, Padri continued his devoted service at Meherabad, guiding pilgrims and maintaining the sacred atmosphere of the place he had helped build. He would show visitors around Baba's Samadhi, sharing stories and maintaining the connection between Baba and those who came seeking Him.

In 1974 and 1975, Steven Hein videotaped Padri and other mandali members, preserving precious footage of their memories and teachings. These "Mandali Moments" videos, filmed at Meherabad in January 1975 (often with Australian pilgrims), were later converted to professional quality and remain valuable historical documents of this era.

On March 13, 1982, at the age of seventy-eight, Padri passed away at Meherabadโ€”the place he had served for six decades. His body was laid to rest at Lower Meherabad, within sight of the Samadhi of his Beloved Master. The grave inscription confirms his birth date as November 29, 1903.

Padri's legacy endures in the physical structures he helped build and maintain at Meherabad, in the villagers whose ailments he treated, in the pilgrims he guided to the Samadhi, and in the example he set of simple, unwavering obedience to the Master. His approach to discipleshipโ€”practical, humble, and focused entirely on following orders rather than seeking spiritual experiencesโ€”represents one authentic path of surrender to the Avatar.

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Life Timeline

1903

Born as Faredoon Nawrosjee Driver on November 29 in Poona, India

1922

Began living with and serving Meher Baba at Manzil-e-Meem, Baba's first ashram

1923

Accompanied Baba to Quetta (Baluchistan, then British India, now Pakistan) with other mandali

1936

Painted the inside of Baba's cabin at Meherabad

1969

Continued service after Meher Baba's passing, guiding pilgrims at Samadhi

1975

Filmed in 'Mandali Moments' video series at Meherabad by Steven Hein

1982

Passed away on March 13 at Meherabad at age 78; buried at Lower Meherabad

Quotes

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Personally, I have little faith in homeopathy, but if the occasion arose, I would wish to be treated only by you, Padri.

โ€” At the Meherabad homeopathic dispensary, after asking Padri and Murli who knew homeopathy best, 1947 (Lord Meher p.2608)

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Come whenever you can. My door is always open to you.

โ€” February 1922 in Poona: Faredoon, then eighteen, had come to Baba's hut only to deliver his mother's message. Baba let him sit, shared prasad with him, and said this as he rose to leave with a heavy heart.

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From today, your name is Padri.

โ€” In 1923, while Baba was joking with the mandali, someone remarked that the tall, solemn Faredoon looked like a padre (a Catholic priest). Baba then gave him the name he kept for the rest of his life.

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You people swear you are ready to give up your life for me, but blisters make you complain. This is not even the beginning of giving up your life โ€” yet you whimper and cry. โ€ฆ Seal your lips and let me kill you slowly โ€” inch by inch. Bravery lies in this, not in showing me the blisters on your palms!

โ€” April 1924 at Meherabad, during the mandali's heavy physical labor. Baba had just rebuked Padri for idling, and Padri then showed Baba his blistered palms in front of the other men.

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You son of a swine! I have been thirsty for three hours and you have been sleeping! Even my clapping does not awaken you. Are you afflicted with the sleep of Kumbha Karna?

โ€” May 1924 at Meherabad: Baba was in seclusion in the Jhopdi and Padri kept watch outside its window day and night. One night Baba clapped for water but Padri slept on; in the morning Padri found this note outside the window.

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Never become a Baba!

โ€” August 1924, during Baba's tour of south India. Feverish and too ill to eat, Baba was walking down from Coonoor with the men; after reproaching them for eating their fill while he suffered, he turned to Padri. Lord Meher notes that the remark was really aimed at Baily.

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Be like a football, which never cries out or complains when kicked. Its fortune is to receive kicks, and the force and height of its kicks are its beauty. โ€ฆ My kicks will raise you up high, higher, infinitely higher and beyond!

โ€” 3 June 1925 at Meherabad. Pendu, supervising the hospital, and Padri, dispensing its medicines, had become exasperated with Baba's daily fault-finding.

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Continue giving medicines to the sufferers, and I will go on blessing you.

โ€” The same day at Meherabad, after his advice to Pendu and Padri. Padri was then the compounder of the free dispensary Baba had opened for the villagers.

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Read your letter to Vishnu. Always trusted my pillars [Padri, Vishnu, Pendu, Adi Sr.] implicitly and am not now going to lose my faith in your penance. Don't worry.

โ€” 18 April 1942: Padri, at Meherabad, had written to Baba about a problem he was facing. Baba dictated this telegram in reply.

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You have one foot in the Old Life and one foot in the New Life, but you need not be afraid that your feet will ever be torn asunder [split out from under you]!

โ€” December 1949, early in the New Life. Padri had stayed behind at Meherabad and had promptly carried out Baba's orders to bring money to the companions at Moradabad. Baba did not see him but sent this joking message.

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If you cut your head off and give it to me, Sukhadwalla will be able to see me, and you will also come to me for all time.

โ€” December 1962 at Meherazad, with about 150 close ones gathered in mandali hall. Padri sat down in front of Manchershaw Sukhadwalla, a short man who then could not see Baba.

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These doctors are all barbers! โ€ฆ You give me something.

โ€” Late January 1969 at Meherazad, in Baba's last days. The allopathic medicines gave no relief from his spasms, so Padri began giving him homeopathic doses every ten minutes.

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