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Norina Matchabelli

Norina Matchabelli

Princess Norina Matchabelli (born Eleanora Erna Cecilia Gilli)

Italian-born actress; made Baba known in the West; co-founder of the Meher Center

โ€œNurjehan (Noorjehan, "light of the world"), given by Meher Babaโ€

3 March 1880 โ€“ 15 June 1957
Florence, Italy โ†’ Youpon Dunes, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, USA

Biography

Norina Matchabelli was born Eleanora Gilli in Florence, Italy, in 1880, the youngest of five children of Luigi Gilli, a Swiss confectioner originally from Samedan, and Emma Troll of Winterthur. As a young woman, under the stage name Maria Carmi, she was chosen by the director Max Reinhardt to play the Madonna in the pantomime The Miracle, written by her first husband, the German author Karl Vollmoeller. She later married Prince Georges Matchabelli, a Georgian national hero, and in December 1923 the couple moved to America, where she performed on the New York stage and Georges founded the Prince Matchabelli Perfume Company.

Norina was an old friend of Jean Schloss and at first mocked the idea of worshipping a living Master. Yet from the moment Meher Baba landed in New York in November 1931 she found herself weeping continuously, and when she met him at Harmon tears of ecstasy rolled down her cheeks. She recognized him as Christ personified, and from that first meeting Baba established in her an unconditional faith that lasted her whole life. Baba later named her Nurjehan, "light of the world."

Through the early 1930s she travelled for Baba's work in America and Europe, arranging his visits and interviews. In December 1936 she arrived in India with Elizabeth Patterson and other Westerners to live in Baba's ashram at Nasik, where she was given overall charge of the ashram. After the 1937 stay at Cannes she returned to India and, from November 1937, lived with the women mandali at Meherabad, where Baba assigned her writing work. In 1939 she lectured publicly about Baba in Mandla and Bangalore with Dr. Deshmukh and Nadine Tolstoy, and she worked on the plans for a large ashram near Bangalore and on the editing of the Meher Baba Journal.

In May 1941 Baba sent Norina, Elizabeth Patterson and Nadine Tolstoy back to America to spread his message and find a property for a spiritual center. Together with Elizabeth she located the land at Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, which was finalized in October 1944 and became the Meher Spiritual Center. In New York she continued to lecture on spiritual themes and gathered younger seekers around her.

In July 1947 Norina and Elizabeth flew back to India, although Norina had been seriously ill with a heart condition. They stayed on Meherabad Hill and later with the women mandali at Meherazad, where she worked with Dr. Deshmukh on a second volume of her Fragments from a Spiritual Diary. Norina died at noon on 15 June 1957 at Youpon Dunes, Myrtle Beach, at the age of 77, after prolonged heart trouble. Baba cabled, "Be happy my very dear Norina has come to live with me forever." Her ashes were interred on Meherabad Hill, and her tombstone reads: "Princess Norina who is and will ever remain Baba's."

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Life Timeline

1880

Born Eleanora Gilli in Florence, Italy

1911

Plays the Madonna in Max Reinhardt's The Miracle under the stage name Maria Carmi

1923

Moves to America with her husband, Prince Georges Matchabelli

1931

Meets Meher Baba at Harmon, New York, and weeps in ecstasy

1933

Spring: travels to India with the first Western group; at Agra tells Baba that since seeing him no other beauty can move her

1934

Works on the project for a film about Baba; Baba calls her "the best type of devotee"

1936

Arrives in India and is given charge of Baba's Western ashram at Nasik

1937

After Cannes, begins living with the women mandali at Meherabad

1938

Meher Baba Journal is entrusted to Elizabeth, Norina and Nonny; the first issue appears in November

1939

Gives public lectures on Baba in Mandla and Bangalore

1941

Sent to America with Elizabeth Patterson and Nadine Tolstoy to find land for a center

1944

Myrtle Beach site for the Meher Spiritual Center is finalized

1952

April: welcomes Baba to the Meher Spiritual Center, which he calls "the home that I love the best"

1957

Dies at Youpon Dunes, Myrtle Beach; ashes interred on Meherabad Hill

Quotes

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And still you have not seen my real beauty and splendor!

โ€” Agra, 1933: Baba asked Norina what she had to say about the Taj Mahal, and she replied, "Since I have seen you, no other beauty can satisfy or affect me!" Baba smiled and gestured this answer.

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When I break my silence, even your eyes will pop!

โ€” 1933: said half-jokingly to Norina.

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You are both in the right, but Norina has got to go a little slower, and Elizabeth has got to try to move a little faster.

โ€” 1938: after letting Norina and Elizabeth argue over Norina's plans in his presence. Then, smiling, he added, "Now both embrace."

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I had given you the order to find me as God Personal. You have found me. Go and tell this to the world. You will hear my voice within. You will hear no other voice.

โ€” Baba's direction to Norina before she left India for America in 1941.

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I was the one who came to you in the form of Christ to lead you toward the Goal.

โ€” Harmon, New York, November 1931. Norina had seen Christ in a vision at the age of twelve and never told Baba of it; on meeting him she recognized him as Christ personified.

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No one can do it for me. When I speak the whole world will consciously experience bliss for seven moments.

โ€” Bhandardara, 11 April 1933, before the journey to Agra. Baba had told the group he might be put in prison or fall seriously ill, and Norina asked whether she might share his suffering.

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You [pointing to Norina] are much too blunt. And for the role of Mother, you ought to be more gentle. Be one without duality. Be gentle. Listen to all suggestions. If you can fall in with them, good; if not, kiss and say no gently. This is tact. It hurts if you are too frank sometimes, and this I do not want.

โ€” Nasik retreat, April 1937. Meals were a constant source of quarrels, and when Norina, who was in charge of the household, raised the question, Baba pointed to her and said this before the group.

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Yes, I know. You are not thinking of yourselves. You are supremely happy as you are. Kitty cooks, Norina types, Rano paints and does other work, Elizabeth writes and is engaged in various chores. I also know that you will go on living like this willingly in whatever circumstances I keep you.

โ€” Panchgani, 1 April 1938. Norina and Elizabeth told Baba that a center was not necessary for themselves, but would be for the other Western women who would come.

Notable Stories

Weeping before the meeting

When her friend Jean Schloss spoke of Baba, Norina sarcastically remarked that she too would like to weep like Thomas Watson had. Three days after Baba's arrival in New York she phoned Jean: from the moment Baba landed she had been weeping continuously and had to see him. At Harmon tears of ecstasy rolled down her cheeks and she forgot her princessly self.

Lucky the monkey

Norina wrote of a tiny monkey that arrived unasked at Meherabad while Baba was looking for one that would respond to him. Released in a circle of the men, it leapt straight onto Baba's arm and was named Lucky. Baba made the bed-ridden Norina its temporary mother, and she cared for it in the upstairs dormitory on Meherabad Hill until Baba sent it to a new home.

My hat or my sandals?

On 8 November 1940 Baba asked Norina, "Which would you rather be, my hat or my sandals?" "Your sandals," she said. "Why?" "Because the sandals are your companions over good roads and bad. They pass through dirt, rain and mud and are always with you." Baba nodded in agreement and spelled out, "This is the reason why people in India worship the chappals [sandals] of the Master and not his hat."

The captain of the Circassia

On the voyage back to India on the Circassia in November 1937, the ship lost speed through engine trouble, and Baba sent Norina to Captain W. Gemmell to ask when they would reach Bombay. He sent her back with the same question again and again, until the exasperated captain burst out, "Madam, what is wrong with you? Can't you remember what I have told you?" Then Baba directed her, "For my work, I must reach Bombay as soon as possible. Go ask the captain if there is any way the ship can reach Bombay earlier than scheduled." When she protested that the poor man was already exasperated with her, Baba replied, "You have no idea! I have very important work waiting for me in Meherabad, so do your part to help me in this." Norina went, her heart pounding, and the captain was furious. Even had he sworn at her, she knew it was nothing compared to the importance of obeying the Master's order.

"This is the home that I love the best"

In April 1952 Norina, kept from travelling to New York by heart trouble, was waiting for Baba at his house at the Meher Spiritual Center, which she and Elizabeth had prepared according to his instructions. Embracing Norina lovingly, Baba told the group, "I am quite pleased with everything you have done for me ... It is all as I wanted it to be." Embracing Elizabeth and Norina again, he continued, "I have had many homes this time. I have laid my head on the ground in palaces and on concrete floors of humble homes." Then, gesturing toward the Center: "But of all the homes I have visited, this is the home that I love the best, because it was given to me and built for me with such love."

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Books & Publications

Fragments from a Spiritual Diary

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A booklet of Norina's spiritual writings, published under her own name

Publisher: W. C. Healy Press

40 Messages by Meher Baba

A booklet of messages of Meher Baba presented by Norina in the 1940s

Role: Presented by Norina Matchabelli

Publisher: W. C. Healy Press

Norina's Gift: Messages from Meher Baba Received through Princess Norina Matchabelli

A posthumous collection of the messages Norina received from Meher Baba, including those she gave in her public talks

Role: Messages received through Norina; published posthumously, with an introduction by Christopher Wilson and Charles Haynes

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