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Naja Irani

Naja Irani

Naja Rustom Irani

Baba's cousin and Pendu's sister; cooked for the ashram and supervised the kitchen

October 10, 1908 โ€“ May 20, 1982
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Profession

Master Cook

Biography

Naja Irani was Meher Baba's cousinโ€”her mother Piroja was the sister of Baba's mother Shireen. She was also the sister of Pendu (Aspandiar), one of Baba's closest male mandali. From earliest childhood, Naja was drawn into the orbit of the Avatar's love.

When Naja was about four years old, she visited Hazrat Babajan with her mother. The ancient Perfect Master took the little girl by the hand and prophesied: 'Come child, you are destined for God.' This blessing would unfold throughout her entire life.

As children, Naja and her brother Aspandiar sat at young Merwan's (Baba's) feet, mesmerized by His personality, at the house of their mother Pila Masi (Baba's aunt). Aspandiar once thought wistfully: 'How wonderful it would be if Merwan were Zoroaster. He is so loving, he sings such beautiful prayers, and his nature is so kind. I wish he were Zoroaster.'

In 1917, when Naja was nine years old, her mother died from a lung condition. Baba told her grieving father Masaji: 'Don't worry. The responsibility of looking after Aspandiar and Naja is now with me. I accept full responsibility for them. They are mine now.'

Raised by her aunt Dowla Masi, Naja learned to cook at her aunt's restaurant in Poona. In 1922, when she was just thirteen, Baba sent her to Quetta, where her brother Aspandiar was working, to help Khorshed Irani (Goher and Katie's mother) care for her young children, among them little Goher and Katie.

In October 1924, Naja was one of the first six women to join Baba's ashram permanently at Meherabadโ€”along with Mehera, Daulatmai, Dowla Masi, Big Khorshed, and Small Khorshed. When Dowla Masi had to leave in 1925 to care for Baba's ill brother Jamshed, Baba told the women plainly: 'If you are willing to cook for over 100 people every day then remain here, otherwise you should go away.' Naja agreed to stay and took over cooking for over 100 people daily.

Naja's service as the master cook was legendary. She prepared 100-200 meals daily with such skill that she could create something delicious out of anything. Once, when very tired, she wondered why Mehera was not given much work while she labored so hard. Baba told her the story of Mary and Martha from the Bibleโ€”Martha cooking while Mary sat at Jesus's feet. Baba explained: 'The sanskaras of everyone are different; hence, everyone's duty is different. Continue doing your duty with love and don't think about what others are doing. You have no idea how great your service is! It is truly great, and in the future you will realize it.' Many years later Baba said that Naja played the role of Martha in his circle, as Mehera played the role of Mary.

Baba's training of Naja was direct and sometimes severe, knowing her love could withstand it. During the festivities for Baba's own 31st birthday at Meherabad in February 1925, Naja merely smiled as she crossed the verandah, yet Baba publicly scolded her because some women guests had been laughing; through her strong love he taught the real offenders a lesson.

In December 1924 Baba told Mehera, Naja and Daulatmai: 'You should never leave meโ€”even if I force you away. You should always hold on to me.' She obeyed this command for her entire life.

In the 1970s and early 1980s, when meeting pilgrims at Meherazad, Naja was once heard to quietly sum up their life with the Master in just three words: 'It was fire.'

Naja passed away at Meherazad on May 20, 1982. Her shrine stands on Meherabad Hill next to Mehera's. Remarkably, exactly seven years later, on the same date, May 20, 1989 (Buddha Purnima), Mehera also passed away.

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Life Timeline

1908

Birth

Born on October 10, 1908, to Rustom (Masaji) and Piroja Irani

1912

Babajan's Prophecy

At about age 4, Babajan took little Naja by the hand and said: 'Come child, you are destined for God'

1917

Mother's Death

At age 9, mother died; Baba promised to take full responsibility for Naja and Aspandiar

1922

Sent to Quetta

At 13, Baba sent Naja to Quetta to help care for young Goher and Katie

1924

Joined Ashram

In October 1924, one of the first six women to permanently join Baba's ashram at Meherabad

1925

Became Head Cook

Took over cooking for 100+ people daily when Dowla Masi left to care for Baba's brother

1937

European Travels

Accompanied Baba on travels including Villa Caldana in Cannes, France

1982

Death

Passed away at Meherazad on May 20, 1982; shrine on Meherabad Hill next to Mehera's

Quotes

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If you are willing to cook for over 100 people every day then remain here, otherwise you should go away.

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The sanskaras of everyone are different; hence, everyone's duty is different. Continue doing your duty with love and don't think about what others are doing. You have no idea how great your service is!

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You should never leave meโ€”even if I force you away. You should always hold on to me.

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Cousins, why are you crying? Am I not here to look after you? โ€ฆ It is much better that she has passed away. Now she is peaceful, enjoying rest in heaven. โ€ฆ She is happy, I promise you.

โ€” Poona, 1917. Naja, about nine, and her brother Aspandiar (Pendu) could not stop crying after their mother Pila Masi died, and their cousin Merwanji consoled them.

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Eh Najru! It's past six, time to awaken! โ€ฆ I will always be the handmaid of my Master!

โ€” Meherabad, late 1924. Baba came to the women's verandah early each morning to wake Naja, and as she hurried out of bed he sat on an empty tea crate and sang the second line.

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Have you all turned into nuns? Do clothes have any connection with spirituality? No! Change your clothes and then let's go!

โ€” Bombay, end of 1924. Baba had Chanji take the women to a film at his Madeleine Cinema, and Daulatmai, Mehera and Naja were about to leave in their ordinary saris.

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Aren't you ashamed of yourself? Why are you laughing like a mad woman in front of everyone? I don't like women laughing in front of men. Whatever they want to do outside is their business, but not in my presence.

โ€” Meherabad, February 1925, during the birthday festivities. Naja smiled slightly as she crossed the verandah, and Baba slapped and scolded her; Lord Meher says the women guests who had been laughing learned the lesson through this undeserved punishment of young Naja.

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Why was there more salt in the vegetable at lunch? The men were complaining to me about this.

โ€” Meherabad, 1925. Baba asked the men mandali daily how they liked the food and then passed their complaints on to Naja, who was cooking some 200 meals a day; she answered sharply that they were mistaken, and friction grew between her and the men.

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You will die. Then, tying you up with a long rope, I will lower you down into a ravine where a tiger will come and eat you up! That will solve my problem, because now you are nothing but a burden to me!

โ€” Panchgani, 1938, when Naja was very ill. Arnavaz Dadachanji, who had just seen Baba's tender care for the sick Goher, was shocked; Baba later explained to her, "I am the tiger and my prey are patients."

Notable Stories

Babajan's Prophecy

At age 4, when visiting Babajan with her mother, the Perfect Master took little Naja by the hand and prophesied: 'Come child, you are destined for God.'

Mary and Martha

When Naja wondered why Mehera wasn't given much work, Baba told her the story of Mary and Martha: everyone's sanskaras, and so everyone's duty, are different, and her service was truly great. Many years later Baba said that Naja played Martha's role in his circle as Mehera played Mary's.

It Was Fire

In the 1970s and early 1980s, when meeting pilgrims at Meherazad, Naja was once heard to quietly sum up their life with the Master in just three words: 'It was fire.'

Same Date, Seven Years Apart

Naja passed away on May 20, 1982. Exactly 7 years later, on the same date, Mehera also passed away: May 20, 1989, which was Buddha Purnima. Their shrines stand next to each other on Meherabad Hill.

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