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Mehera Irani

Mehera Irani

Mehera Jehangir Irani

Called by Baba "my Radha"

January 7, 1907 – May 20, 1989
Sukkur, British India (now Pakistan) β†’ Meherazad, India
Baba's RadhaNew Life CompanionBeloved of the Beloved

Biography

Mehera Jehangir Irani holds a unique and sacred place in the spiritual history of Meher Baba's advent. Over the years Baba Himself many times called her 'the purest soul in the universe' and the one who loved Him most. He called her His 'Radha,' drawing the parallel to the divine love between Lord Krishna and His beloved devotee. For Mehera, there was only Babaβ€”her entire existence was devoted to Him with a love so pure and complete that Baba acknowledged it as the highest form of divine love.

Born on January 7, 1907, in Sukkur, British India, Mehera first met Meher Baba on October 15, 1922, when she was fifteen years old. The meeting occurred at the Sakori ashram of Upasni Maharaj during a visit with her mother. From that moment, her destiny was sealed. In 1924, she joined Baba permanently at Meherabad and would remain with Him for the rest of her life.

Unique among all the women mandali, Mehera was kept in complete seclusion from men by Baba's specific order. Even during the New Life, no man could see Mehera. Not until the late 1960s was she permitted even to meet some men mandali from a distance, greeting them with folded hands and 'Jai Baba!' This extraordinary seclusion reflected the unprecedented purity that Baba required for her role in His work.

Mehera was one of only four women who accompanied Meher Baba during His 'New Life' phase from 1949 to 1952β€”a period of complete renunciation when Baba and His companions wandered as spiritual vagrants, begging for food and shelter. The hardships of this period tested all the companions, but Mehera's love never wavered.

In 1952, while traveling with Baba in America, Mehera suffered a severe head injury in an automobile accident near Prague, Oklahoma. Baba Himself was also seriously injured. This accident was part of Baba's suffering for humanity, and Mehera bore her share with quiet acceptance.

Baba is reported to have said of Mehera: 'She is my very breath without which I cannot live.' Such statements from an Avatar about a disciple are extraordinarily rare and speak to the unique spiritual relationship between them.

After Baba's physical passing in 1969, Mehera continued to live at Meherazad, keeping His room exactly as He had left it, tending His garden, and receiving the pilgrims who came to Meherazad. She became a living link to Baba for thousands of His lovers worldwide.

Mehera passed away on May 20, 1989, at Meherazad. In accordance with Meher Baba's directive given during His lifetime, her final resting place is by His side, adjacent to His Samadhi at Meherabad, symbolizing for eternity the unique spiritual bond between the Beloved and His beloved.

Although Mehera was born in January, since 1968 her birthday has been celebrated on December 22: that was the date on which it fell in 1968 according to the Zoroastrian calendar, and 1968 was the last year it was celebrated in Meher Baba's physical presence. Her story has been lovingly documented in 'Mehera-Meher: A Divine Romance,' a three-volume work by David Fenster based on tape recordings of Mehera herself.

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Life Timeline

1907

Birth

Born on January 7, 1907, in Sukkur, British India (now Pakistan), to Jehangir and Daulatmai Irani

1922

First Meeting with Baba

Met Meher Baba for the first time on October 15, at age 15, at the Sakori ashram of Upasni Maharaj during a visit with her mother

1924

Joined Permanently

Joined Meher Baba permanently at Meherabad, beginning a lifetime of devotion

1949-1952

New Life Companion

One of only four women who accompanied Baba during His New Life phase of complete renunciation

1952

Car Accident

Suffered a severe head injury in an automobile accident with Meher Baba near Prague, Oklahoma, USA

1989

Death

Passed away on May 20, 1989, at Meherazad. In accordance with Baba's directive, her final resting place is by His side, adjacent to His Samadhi at Meherabad

Quotes

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Do not be shy of me. Every day you are the last one to come for food. Why? Don't do it again.

β€” Quetta, 1924: Baba served the meals himself, and the very shy Mehera always came last in line; once he was so upset at her shyness that he threw her plate, then spoke to her lovingly.

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As the fire burns in the stove, so should the fire of love burn in your heart!

β€” Irani Mansion, 1924: the day after scolding Mehera and Khorshed for a failed dessert, Baba cooked with them himself, taught Mehera a dish, and pointed to the stove.

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From today you are my orderly.

β€” Meherabad, 1924, soon after Mehera and five other women became the first women to live there permanently; from then on she prepared Baba's tea, washed his clothes and cleaned his plate and glass.

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If you press my feet like this every day, I will make you like Babajan!

β€” Ahmednagar station, December 1924: before the train left for Bombay, Baba called Mehera to his compartment and told her to massage his feet.

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You should never leave me β€” even if I force you away. … You should always hold on to me.

β€” Bombay, December 1924: the day after Baba had pretended to be upset and ordered the women out of the house for the sake of his work, he told Mehera, Naja and Daulatmai this.

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If you wish to stay in Sakori, you may. But I will be happy if you return to Meherabad.

β€” Meherabad, February 1925: Baba had sent Mehera to Sakori for a few days, and Upasni Maharaj's disciple Durgabai urged her to stay there; after some days Baba sent Masaji with this letter.

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As Krishna's love was for Radha, so is my love for you. You love me as Radha loved Krishna.

β€” Meherabad, 1925: on the Post Office verandah, after telling Mehera the story of Radha and Krishna.

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My love for you is excessively more than for anyone else.

β€” Toka, 1928: the women bathed Baba, Mehera washing his feet; they felt his love for her was unique, as Krishna's was for Radha.

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Fasting and working with the masts do not tire me, but I have been working internally very hard and have settled everything.

β€” The Links, Bangalore, 1 March 1940: Baba, fasting, was still cleaning the masts' latrines at the mast ashram, and Mehera showed her anxiety that he was working so tirelessly.

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Have you all turned into nuns? Do clothes have any connection with spirituality? No! Change your clothes and then let's go!

β€” Bombay, end of 1924: Baba had told Chanji to take the women to a film, and Daulatmai, Mehera and Naja were about to leave in their ordinary saris.

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Do your duties and obey all the orders I have already given you. … Don't worry, and think of me always.

β€” 1930: before entering seclusion, Baba met privately with Gulmai, Mehera, Mani and Khorshed and told them about it.

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They take with them a spark of me and will spread my love everywhere!

β€” Meherabad, 1958, at the end of the Meherabad sahavas: the special train had halted on the tracks by Meherabad, and as it carried the pilgrims away, Baba turned to Mehera and the women.

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