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Katie Irani

Katie Irani

Katie Rusi Irani

Goher's younger sister; cook for the ashram; later a storyteller at Meherazad

27 February 1920 โ€“ 29 May 2009
Ahmednagar, India โ†’ Meherazad, India

Biography

Katie Irani was born on 27 February 1920 in her mother's family home in Ahmednagar. Her parents were Rusi Jehangir Irani, known as Rusi Pop, and Khorshed Banoo Irani, and her elder sister was Dr. Goher Irani; her other siblings included Roshan, Jal and Aspi. The family lived in Quetta, and when Meher Baba stayed in Rusi's home there in 1923, Goher was seven and Katie three. Baba played with all of Rusi's children but was most attentive to the two sisters, and little Katie told her father that Baba was such a fine gentleman that he should not be allowed to leave.

Baba stayed with the family in Quetta again in 1929 and in 1931. In 1931, when Katie was eleven, he teased her, dictated her school essay and taught her never to refuse what he gave. Katie was sent as a child to live with her mother's relatives at Khushru Quarters in Ahmednagar, and the family later settled there; by 1938 she was coming to Meherabad with Goher during school holidays.

In December 1938, at eighteen, Katie was allowed to join Baba and the women mandali in Hyderabad at the start of the Blue Bus tours, and she remained in the women's ashram for more than a decade. She cooked for the women, with Manu Jessawala at first, and acted in and helped Mani with the humorous skits staged for Baba, once playing Mussolini. She lived with the women at the Links in Bangalore and in their secluded compound on Meherabad Hill, where Kitty Davy taught her typing and shorthand.

When the New Life began in 1949, Baba sent Katie to Bombay to live with Nariman and Arnavaz Dadachanji and to take a job. She went to work for the Japanese Consulate, where under Baba's direction she served for decades as personal secretary to a long line of Japanese consuls general. Bombay never suited her, but she stayed, keeping Baba's strict New Life orders and spending her weekends with him at Guruprasad, Meherazad or wherever he allowed, often entertaining him with mimicry and comic disguises.

After retiring from the Consulate in 1978, Katie rejoined the resident women mandali at Meherazad. She helped her sister Goher in the clinic, giving injections and dressing wounds, and looked after the Meherazad kitchen for the rest of her life. A gifted raconteur, she welcomed pilgrims on Mehera's porch and abroad with stories of her life with Baba, and in her last years recorded them for a video project; she often said she felt she had never left the New Life. She also published a cookbook, Cooking with Katie (2001). Katie died at Meherazad on 29 May 2009, aged 89, was cremated the same day at Meherabad, and her ashes were interred near Baba's Samadhi on Meherabad Hill.

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Life Timeline

1923

Met Meher Baba at age three when he stayed with her family in Quetta

1929

Baba stayed again in Rusi's house in Quetta in May, telling Goher and Katie he had come from far away especially to see them

1931

Baba stayed with the family in Quetta again; the lesson of the plums

1938

Joined Baba and the women mandali in Hyderabad in December at the start of the Blue Bus tours

1939

Living with the women at the Links bungalow in Bangalore

1940

In December, at Ramnad on the return from Ceylon, slipped while carrying hot tea and was scalded; Baba rebuked Kaka Baria for touching her against his orders

1949

Sent to Bombay at the start of the New Life to take a job; worked at the Japanese Consulate

1957

During Baba's October stay at Ashiana in Bombay, kept him amused with her mimicry and funny stories

1962

Asked her brother Aspi, an army major sent to the border in the Indo-Chinese War, to wear Baba's locket; he reached the Indian border after a fourteen-day retreat

1963

In April, after not asking for leave from the Japanese Consulate to come to Poona as ordered, suffered severe back pain; Baba sent pills through Goher and, after an hour with him, her pain was halved

1963

On 23 December, at the celebration of Mehera's birthday at Meherazad, fooled the women by arriving disguised as a man

1978

Retired from the Consulate and rejoined the resident women mandali at Meherazad

2001

Published her cookbook, Cooking with Katie, illustrated by Wodin

2009

Died at Meherazad on 29 May; her ashes were interred near Baba's Samadhi

Quotes

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I am leaving, but you must continue to remember me. Will you do that?

โ€” Quetta, June 1923: Baba threaded a string through two matchboxes and spoke to three-year-old Katie through this "telephone" before leaving.

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Do you know from what distance I have come especially to see you? How fortunate you are.

โ€” To Goher and Katie, on arriving at their father Rusi's house in Quetta, May 1929.

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Who is this little flower sitting in my room?

โ€” Quetta, 1931: pointing to eleven-year-old Katie, who sat shyly in a corner of his room.

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Never tell a lie! Say it was written after talking with someone.

โ€” Quetta, 1931: after dictating Katie's school essay, when she said she would tell her teacher she had written it herself.

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All right, let's be friends. Always carry out my wishes, whether you like them or not!

โ€” Quetta, 1931: after pretending to leave and holding up his little finger at Katie (the children's sign of no longer being on speaking terms), Baba came back when she begged him to, and shook hands with her.

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Because of your delay in following the order, everything I was trying to do for Mani and my work has become ineffective. There may be good reasons for lateness in all other things, but in obedience it is an unfortunate tragedy!

โ€” 1939: Baba had ordered Katie to give Mani fresh orange juice at 3:00 P.M. each day. One day she brought it at 3:05, explaining that squeezing the oranges had taken longer.

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Katie is to take a job that Nariman will find for her, like that of a shorthand typist, shop assistant, etc.

โ€” August 1949: Baba's instructions for the women who were not to accompany him on the New Life. Katie was sent to live with Nariman and Arnavaz Dadachanji in Bombay.

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Why did you go out? I told you to go inside. You must do exactly as I tell you.

โ€” Poona, April 1963: Baba told Katie and Arnavaz to go inside to visit Mehera, but Katie first went out to fetch the sandals she had left outside the room.

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If people see you, they will say that Meher Baba's followers do nothing but play cards all day! We are in a new town, and just think for a moment what a bad impression your card playing would make on a casual observer. Don't you donkey-heads feel ashamed? Although I have no objection to it, I have to see to the minutest of things so that unpleasant consequences do not follow.

โ€” Amboli, April 1940: Baba unexpectedly came upon Katie, Arnavaz, Nargis, Silla and others playing cards on the verandah of their bungalow.

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Everything is finished. โ€ฆ I feel so happy today; I feel so free. A new life starts.

โ€” Meherabad, 15 October 1949: on the eve of the New Life, Katie and Naja were leaving for Bombay, and Baba walked down the hill with them, smiling broadly.

Notable Stories

The plum

In Quetta in 1931, eleven-year-old Katie brought Baba a tray of plums. When he held one out to her, she politely refused, thinking the fruit was meant only for him. Baba made a show of displeasure and had Chanji explain that when he gives something, one must never say no, even if one does not like it. Then he embraced her and asked whether she would now remember to accept whatever he gave. When she said yes, he lifted a big plum to her open mouth and popped it into his own, and Katie burst out laughing.

The drowned hen

During the Blue Bus period a hen drowned in a rain-filled pit, and Elizabeth Patterson, weeping, brought it to Baba believing it was only unconscious with cold. Baba carried it to the kitchen where Katie and Manu were cooking and told them to hold it over the fire. Katie told him in Gujarati that the hen was already dead. Baba winked and told Elizabeth how fortunate the hen was to die in his presence, and Katie promptly played along, announcing that the hen had died, so that Elizabeth accepted its death.

The intruder at Mehera's birthday

On 23 December 1963, when some 250 women gathered at Meherazad to celebrate Mehera's birthday and no men were allowed because Mehera was present, a man in white pants with a big yellow patch, a black coat, spectacles and a Parsi hat pushed his way in, crying that he wanted to meet Meher Baba. The women screamed and tried to push him out while Baba sat smiling. Only when the man advanced toward Mehera did "he" reveal himself as Katie, made up by Rano. A little later she returned dressed as a Japanese geisha and, at Baba's request, sang a Japanese song in a high-pitched voice that left everyone doubled up with laughter.

A telephone of matchboxes

In June 1923 Baba stayed with Rusi's family in Quetta. One day, recalling a trick from his own childhood, he called for two matchboxes, threaded a string through them, kept one end and gave the other to three-year-old Katie. Through this "telephone" he told her, "I am leaving, but you must continue to remember me. Will you do that?" She replied, "How could I ever forget you, Baba?" When he left, he accepted a kiss from Goher and Katie, and as the train left, Rusi, silently calling to his Master to come back soon, received this reply in silence: "I will have to return, for I have left the blossoms of my Garden here."

The essay Baba dictated

During Baba's 1931 stay in Quetta he found eleven-year-old Katie doing her homework and dictated an entire essay for her. She said it was wonderful but too good: the teacher would know it was not hers. Asked what she would say, Katie replied that she would claim she had written it herself. Baba caught her by the ear: "Never tell a lie! Say it was written after talking with someone." Another time he pretended to leave, went down the stairs and held up his little finger at her, the children's sign that they were no longer on speaking terms. When the saddened girl begged him to come back, he returned, shook hands with her and said, "All right, let's be friends. Always carry out my wishes, whether you like them or not!" The once shy girl soon grew bold enough to catch Baba flicking a carrom piece into a pocket and cry, "Baba, you're cheating!"

Baba's locket for Aspi

Katie's brother Aspi, a major in the Indian Army, was being sent to the border in the Indo-Chinese War of 1962. Before he left, Katie asked him to wear Baba's locket at all times under his uniform and to take Baba's name. Aspi did not believe in Baba but respected him, and said, "Well Katie, just to please you I will wear it." Cut off by the Chinese, he led his men on a retreat through forest, up a sheer rock face and across a river by a bridge he could hardly believe was there, reaching the Indian border after fourteen days. In March 1963 Baba remembered Aspi and asked Eruch to relate the story at Guruprasad.

Videos

Books & Publications

Cooking with Katie

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Katie's cookbook (2001, 292 pp.), illustrated by Wodin.

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