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Kaka Baria

Kaka Baria

Ardeshir Shapurji Baria

Manager of Meherazad, Baba's attendant and cook, founding trustee of the Avatar Meher Baba Trust

23 February 1891 โ€“ 27 February 1969
Navsari, India โ†’ Meherazad, India

Biography

Ardeshir Shapurji Baria, later known to everyone as Kaka, was born in Navsari on 23 February 1891. He studied mechanical engineering and worked for two years at the Greaves Cotton Mills in Bombay, five years at a similar firm in Nagpur and two years at the Tata Iron and Steel Company in Jamshedpur. He also worked in Iraq as an automotive mechanic, and by 1928 he was living in Bombay as the owner of several taxicabs.

From childhood Kaka liked to visit the tombs of saints. In Nagpur he met Tajuddin Baba, who assured him that all would be well with him; in Poona he regularly sat before Hazrat Babajan; he also met Narayan Maharaj; and finally Upasni Maharaj told him to go for Meher Baba's darshan. In 1928 he came to Baba at Toka and asked to stay in the ashram, but Baba tried on his chappals and told him that they did not fit: only when his chappals were Baba's size would Baba keep him. Kaka endured two years of testing before he was fit to join the Master.

Meanwhile his family in Bombay, his sister Banubai and her husband Manekji Confectioner, often hosted Baba and the mandali, and Kaka put his car at Baba's disposal. He became one of Baba's closest mandali. In 1932 he travelled with Baba to England, Switzerland and America, keeping night watch on the journey, and he went on later Western trips as well. On the road in India he often served as the cook, and in October 1949, at 58, he set out as a companion of the New Life, where he and Baidul were put in charge of the kitchen.

Kaka became the manager of Meherazad, and in 1952 Baba re-appointed him to that post. He lived there for long stretches on his own, keeping the property and rooms spotless as if Baba might arrive at any moment. He was strict and fastidious, so much so that the other mandali hardly dared speak with the servant boys under his charge, and the cook was terrified of him.

Kaka's heart troubles began in 1950 during the New Life; he had four heart attacks, a stroke in 1965 and a very severe fifth attack in 1967, when Baba gave him a cup of water and he recovered so fully that he never again needed medical attention. Baba had said that Kaka was to be the only mandali member buried at Meherazad. He died there on 27 February 1969, less than a month after Baba dropped his body, and was buried at Meherazad.

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Life Timeline

1891

Born in Navsari on 23 February

1928

Sent by Upasni Maharaj, met Meher Baba at Toka; began two years of testing

1928

On 19 December came to Meherabad again asking to stay; Baba said his chappals now fit, but two days later sent him back to Bombay with copies of The Meher Message

1929

Drove Baba and the mandali to Victoria Docks in Bombay on 20 September for Baba's voyage to Persia

1932

Travelled with Baba to England, Switzerland and America

1936

From September travelled about with Pleader, Savak Kotwal and Homi Irani to bring masts and mad persons from different places

1945

At the Meherabad meeting in May, Baba said that nobody could serve him personally as Kaka had done

1949

Appointed manager of Meherazad in January

1949

Set out as a companion of the New Life, in charge of the kitchen with Baidul

1950

Suffered his first heart attack during the New Life

1952

Re-appointed by Baba as manager of Meherazad

1965

Hospitalized after suffering a stroke

1967

Recovered from a severe fifth heart attack after Baba gave him a cup of water

1969

Died at Meherazad on 27 February and was buried there

Quotes

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Now I think your chappals will fit me.

โ€” Meherabad, 19 December 1928, when Kaka came again asking to stay permanently. Two days later Baba nevertheless sent him back to Bombay to deliver copies of The Meher Message.

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Three of my apostles are now with me: Kaka and Chanji equal two, and Herbert and Quentin together are counted as one since they represent the twins.

โ€” Assisi, Italy, August 1932, explaining the Avatar's circle after his seclusion in the cave, where Kaka had stood watch.

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Our Kaka Baria: Nobody can serve me personally in the manner in which Kaka has done. His service in this respect is unparalleled. He visited the West seven times with me and has suffered the severest types of inconveniences. As an orderly, he tops the list; and in mast work he is second only to Baidul.

โ€” Speaking about his mandali one by one at the meeting in the Mess Quarters, Meherabad, May 1945.

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Kaka has had three severe heart attacks and was thought to be dead at the time of the last one. Who would now think that he could have been so seriously ill once upon a time!

โ€” Meherazad, 9 December 1962, when Kaka's loud shouts at the servants, busy with the arrangements for Mehera's birthday celebration, interrupted Baba's talk.

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If he cannot be saved, and you think his time has come, then it's better he dies here at Meherazad than in the hospital. But I tell you, he won't die now.

โ€” Meherazad, 1967, when Goher pleaded that Kaka, after his fifth heart attack, be taken to hospital because he could not be saved.

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Every day, Kaka cheers me. Francis imitates Kaka, and that makes me happy.

โ€” Meherazad, February 1968, asking the mandali to try to look cheerful for his sake.

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While everybody adds to my burden, Kaka removes a fraction of it.

โ€” Said more than once in the mandali hall at Meherazad in 1968, where Kaka walked beside Baba like a protective guard and amused him with his mispronunciations.

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Had you taken the order seriously, you would have remembered it. You think you have done a good deed, but you have no idea how much you have hurt me. โ€ฆ But her fall has made you fall, in disregarding my order.

โ€” Ramnad, 7 December 1940, when Katie slipped while carrying hot tea and Kaka, forgetting Baba's order that the men were not to touch the women, went to help her. Kaka said he was sorry and had only wanted to help.

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I told you both to be on guard! What were you two doing while I was inside? โ€ฆ But today, because of your carelessness, someone has committed a very grave blunder. Had I not saved him, he would have turned into ashes.

โ€” Kashmir, late August 1944, on a mast tour with Kaka, Baidul and Habibullah. While Baba was working alone with a powerful mast, Habibullah secretly peeped into the room, and Baba came out scolding Kaka and Baidul, who did not know what he meant.

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Your mistake completed my work. Now, don't worry and remain happy.

โ€” Angiras Hill near Sihawa, 12 November 1945. Baba had rebuked Kaka for giving the buffalo's cream to Adi without permission and said that his disobedience meant more seclusion; after another half hour in his hut, Baba sent for Kaka and told him this.

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Did you understand it? โ€ฆ You are illiterate; how could you understand English?

โ€” Once in the mandali hall, after Eruch had read Baba a letter in English and Kaka shook his head. Baba then told Aloba, whom Kaka often tormented, to teach Kaka English, and Aloba went after him with a vengeance.

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Pray that it does not rain and spoil the match!

โ€” Poona, 22 July 1949, during Baba's nine days away from his Meherazad seclusion. Baba said he would be entirely satisfied if it did not rain the next day so that he could watch the cricket match, and on a drive he asked each of the mandali whether it would rain.

Notable Stories

Chappals that did not fit

When Ardeshir Baria came to Toka in 1928 and asked to stay, Baba tested him with the unfamiliar work of weaving bamboo mats. After inspecting the mats, Baba put on Baria's chappals and remarked, "Your chappals don't fit me. What can I do? When your chappals are my size, I will keep you with me." Baria was puzzled, but Baba meant that he was not yet ready. He left Toka and, in the words of Lord Meher, went to pay the price for a suitable pair of chappals: two years of testing before he could join Baba.

"You are the Ocean"

Before he met Meher Baba, Kaka would regularly sit before Hazrat Babajan in Poona without ever saying a word to her. One day she asked him why he never asked her for anything. He replied, "You are the Ocean and I am but a traveler who has come to drink from the Ocean."

A cup of water

In 1967 Kaka suffered a very severe fifth heart attack and grew so weak he could not raise his hand. Goher feared he could not be saved, but Baba said, "He won't die now." On Baba's instructions Eruch, Pendu and Bhau carried Kaka into the hall and sat him next to Baba, who gave him a cup of water. Within half an hour Kaka was active again: he walked out, ate his lunch, washed his dishes and made his bed. From that day until his death in 1969 he never again needed medical attention.

Samadhi outside the door

In London in 1932, Kaka, who knew no English, had begged Baba not to leave him alone with the Westerners who plied him with questions. Once, while Baba was giving a private interview, Kaka was waiting outside the room when several Western women surrounded him and asked one question after another. At a total loss, he could only think to close his eyes, fold his hands and stand still. Taking him for an advanced soul in meditation, the new lovers were all the more impressed and stayed around him, praising him while he was inwardly swearing at them. Recalling the scene thirty years later, Baba said that Kaka had been praying to him all the while to end the interview; when he could no longer stand his self-imposed samadhi, he suddenly opened his eyes, bowed to everyone and walked out into the street.

"Why are you serving me?"

At Meherabad in September 1934, Baba remarked that he had not yet come across anyone who could serve him without thought of either spiritual or material benefit. He then called Kaka and asked, "Why are you serving me?" "It is my duty!" Kaka replied. Asked whether he had any selfish motive, he answered, "Absolutely not!" Baba explained that Kaka wanted nothing, yet longed in his heart for spiritual progress, and that this too was selfishness: "One should serve out of love, and true love is bereft of any thought of gain or worry over risks taken."

Kaka's new language

In his last years at Meherazad, uremia made it hard for Kaka to speak coherently. He would ask for anda (eggs) when he wanted a matchbox, and he called Aloba "Cucumber", Bhau "Mouse" and Pendu "Garlic", giving entirely different names a few moments later. Baba delighted in these christenings, which Francis would loudly repeat so that Mehera and the other women could hear, and once remarked, perhaps only half-joking, "This was the language people used to speak 1,000 years ago, and Kaka is remembering it!" In the mandali hall Baba walked beside Kaka each day, holding his arm, and more than once he said, "While everybody adds to my burden, Kaka removes a fraction of it."

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